. >>> some personal observations from arnold schwarzenegger. his autobiography "total recall" doesn't hit stores until next month, but we're getting a sneak peek tonight. he talks about the boy he fathered with his housekeeper. his wife, maria shriver, booked them a counseling appointment the day after he left the governor's office. he thought the meeting was about transitioning from public to a more private life, but instead the therapist asked schwarzenegger if he had fathered the boy. apparently shriver had suspected it for years. schwarzenegger wrote that he apologized and groveled for forgiveness. he said even though she filed for divorce, he thinks they'll get back together someday. >>> the professors found that the sense of having some control with the key factor in lowered stress and that the person with the most control is usually the boss. what the study didn't answer was the proverbial chicken and egg question, whether leadership leads to low stress levels or whether people who are predisposed not to stress out are more likely to be